The Power of Words

Proverbs 12:18 (KJV) Says, "There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health."

The above scripture reminds us of the power words hold. It tells us that they can be used to pierce like a sword, and that they can be used for good. Often times people fail to consider the power words have and that the manner in which we choose to use them can have a tremendous impact on those around us.

There are adults who as children were the victims of verbal bullying in school, and the pain caused by that experience remains with them today. Bullying happens to adults also. It happens to some within their own homes, and to some at their place of employment. The use of words to bully another person is damaging to the victims spirit, and self-esteem. If we recognize within ourselves or our children the tendency to bully, we need to get to the root of what is bothering our child, or what is bothering us. We need to address and resolve whatever insecurity we have that is manifesting itself in the form of verbal bullying.

Adults should do their best not to argue. If we feel we can't avoid an argument then let's make certain we don't conduct it in front of children. When people argue the words they choose aren't always what they truly feel, and children take things literally. When children witness arguments where hurtful words are exchanged, it leaves a lasting impact on them.  Some people when they argue choose to use the most hurtful words they can spew in the heat of the moment, and they will incorporate a subject into the argument they know hurts the person they are arguing with deeply. This happens despite the fact, that the hurtful thing that has been thrown into the arena has absolutely nothing to do with the initial disagreement. When this occurs, the argument becomes larger and more than likely remains off topic, often times resulting in people failing to recall what they were in disagreement about to begin with.

We as Christians need to choose our words wisely. Many arguments could have been avoided by someone choosing the right words to say at the right time. If you become angry take a moment to calm down before you speak, as this could result in you making a better word choice with which to respond.  We should use words that encourage, and uplift others. We should use words that instill confidence, and build self-esteem. There are several ways in which words can be used to make a positive impact on those around us. Words can be used to defuse a situation, to express love, and to lift a persons spirit. I would like to encourage you today to think about what you say before you say it. Taking the time to choose our words wisely, can make a tremendous difference in the way others respond to us, and the impact we have on them.

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